Conjoined twin Carmen Andrade says she respects Lupita's boundaries since getting married

Carmen Andrade says she and her conjoined twin sister Lupita Rivera Andrade have learned to navigate boundaries in the wake of Carmen’s marriage to Daniel McCormack, a ceremony she describes as a small, intimate elopement on Lover’s Leap Bridge in New Milford, Connecticut, in October 2024. The twins, who were born in Mexico and now live in Connecticut, are joined at the torso and share some organs, but each has their own heart, lungs and stomach. The development has forced the siblings to negotiate not only physical boundaries but also emotional and logistical ones within their blended family.

To manage intimate moments and everyday conversations without crossing Lupita’s comfort zone, Carmen says the key is constant communication. “I don’t know how else to put it,” she told People. If Lupita feels uneasy about something, whether it’s physical affection or a topic of discussion, the sisters adjust to respect her comfort level. Lupita, in turn, has a practical approach: “I have headphones and a phone. I don’t care.” The duo acknowledge they sometimes feel guilt about the time they spend with each other and Daniel, but they emphasize a deliberate effort to maintain balance for Lupita’s sake. The arrangement, they say, is about living as a unit while honoring Lupita’s boundaries and individuality.

The conversation, which also touched on privacy, comes as fans have frequently speculated about the sisters’ private lives. Carmen pushed back on questions about intimate details, telling People she does not understand why some fans want to scrutinize private matters “to humanise us.” Daniel did not shy away from the scrutiny either, arguing that public fixation on sex was intrusive: “People are obsessed with sex, you know? And it’s just like, frankly, it’s none of your f------ business.” Lupita said the line of questioning can sting in a different way, adding, “I love him as a brother. That’s about it.”

Beyond romance, the sisters have faced ongoing questions about money and fame tied to their social media presence. Carmen addressed a persistent rumor that she is the primary breadwinner while Daniel tags along for the spotlight. She laughed off insinuations that she is financially dependent on him: “I’ve got no money.” She further clarified that even with a joint YouTube channel that has more than 256,000 subscribers and thousands of Instagram followers, their earnings are modest. “We don’t want to take advantage of our supporters,” she said, noting they partner only with brands they genuinely use and trust. In reality, she described their online income as supplemental, with both sisters continuing to work full-time to cover ordinary expenses—about 50 hours a week at times—to keep up with medical, travel and other costs.

Lupita, who identifies as asexual, also offered clarity about the notion of marriage within their life. She said she does not want to marry and emphasized her love for Carmen’s happiness and well-being: “I don’t want to get married… because I don’t want to.” She added that the idea of marriage to her sister’s partner is not part of her current life plan, underscoring her preference for a familial rather than a romantic bond with Daniel.

The timeline around Carmen’s marriage was clarified in July, when she disclosed that she had tied the knot in October 2024. The couple, who met on the dating app Hinge in 2020, described their wedding as a small gathering with local family. In a YouTube video titled “Overdue Update,” Carmen announced, “I did get married,” flashing her wedding ring and joking with Daniel appearing beside her. She later addressed confusion, insisting, “We got married,” while noting the nuanced reality that Lupita’s presence and consent were central to their decision as a unit. The extended family story also touched on prior statements that Lupita is not inclined toward marriage, with Carmen stressing that their situation is about mutual respect and shared life rather than conventional norms. The sisters have previously spoken about how easily their relationship can be fetishized or sensationalized, a reality they say complicates public perception of their daily lives.

As for their ongoing public profile, the sisters say they remain selective about sponsorships and brand partnerships, choosing only those they genuinely use and trust. They describe their online earnings as a supplemental income and reiterate their commitment to maintaining privacy and dignity for Lupita, Carmen and Daniel as they navigate a unique family dynamic. The overarching message from Carmen and Lupita is one of care, consent and communication within a life that defies simple categorization, with both sisters emphasizing the importance of mutual respect and personal boundaries in all aspects of their relationship.