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Jon Gosselin, Collin react to Kate Gosselin dating ex-bodyguard after affair claims

Reaction from the former reality TV family follows reports Kate Gosselin is dating her longtime bodyguard years after prior allegations.

Culture & Entertainment 4 months ago
Jon Gosselin, Collin react to Kate Gosselin dating ex-bodyguard after affair claims

Jon Gosselin and his son Collin publicly weighed in on reports that Kate Gosselin is dating her former bodyguard, Steve Neild, years after rumors of an affair during the couple's marriage. Page Six reported that the relationship is serious and that Kate and Neild have discussed moving on together.

On Wednesday, Jon, 48, shared the Page Six piece on Instagram along with an old photo of Kate with Neild and wrote, 'Guess who really ruined the marriage.' He followed with another post, 'Maybe when I speak people will listen now!!!' He later posted on Instagram Stories, 'I told you all. No one believed me— guess I was right!'

Collin, 21, who is estranged from his mother, responded on his own Instagram Stories, recounting the 2009 allegations and sharing his perspective on sharing a hotel room with their bodyguard. He wrote that his mother 'had an affair with our bodyguard way back in 2009, and for years would share hotel rooms with him while we went on family vacations, while I was in a connected room!' He added that others may romanticize her actions, but that 'we still feel pain from our past.' He also addressed his father, saying, 'I love you dad' and noting that the family has endured more than public drama.

The younger Gossmann also told followers that he is 'very busy in college, at work, and running my business' and is not interested in engaging in ongoing public feuds.

The Post has reached out to reps for Kate and Jon for comment. Kate and Neild are reportedly in a 'serious' relationship and living together, according to Page Six, which quoted a source saying Kate is 'crazy about him' and that wedding plans had been discussed. In a TikTok video, Kate revealed that she has been in a relationship for 'a little over a year, maybe 14 [or] 15 months' and added that fans might see him occasionally in the future as she emphasized she is not lonely anymore.

Kate Gosselin and Steve Neild were together during and after their 2009 marriage to Jon Gosselin, which lasted from 1999 to 2009. They share eight children: twins Madelyn and Cara, now 24, and sextuplets Aaden, Collin, Joel, Hannah, Alexis, and Leah, now 21. Jon is estranged from all of his kids except Collin and Hannah, who do not speak with their mother. Kate previously denied the affair allegations while married to Jon, calling them 'disgusting, unthinkable, unfathomable' and explaining that their security and management circle can travel with families on vacations. 'They’re the only people you have left,' she said at the time, indicating that relationships within a staff circle can blur boundaries in challenging moments.

The contemporary questions surrounding Kate Gosselin’s dating life come as a new round of headlines underscores the ongoing complexity of the family dynamic, which has evolved since the end of their long-running reality show and the tumult that followed.

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