Melania Trump to Meet Zelenska on UN General Assembly Sidelines
Non-formal encounter highlights the role of first ladies as U.S. weighs its Ukraine policy amid ongoing war

Melania Trump will briefly greet Ukrainian First Lady Olena Zelenska on the sidelines of the United Nations General Assembly on Tuesday, a meeting described by the White House as non-formal and not a formal bilateral talks session. Zelenska had invited Melania to attend the fifth Summit of First Ladies and Gentlemen in Kyiv on Sept. 10–11, but the U.S. first lady instead took part in the Sept. 11 terror attacks remembrance in New York. Ukrainian state media had previously indicated Melania would not attend the meeting, while Ukrinform later reported the two would meet later in September in New York during the UN gathering.
Marc Beckman, a senior adviser to Melania, confirmed the encounter with Zelenska on Fox & Friends on Tuesday morning. Officials say Melania and President Donald Trump are scheduled to have a bilateral discussion with Zelensky around 1 p.m. local time at the United Nations. The event comes as the first lady has been credited with softening Trump’s public posture on Ukraine after a tense exchange in the Oval Office earlier this year with Ukrainian President Volodymyr Zelensky. Trump has publicly pressed his own approach to the war, including questions about Western sanctions and energy policies, while signaling his willingness to engage with Kyiv at high levels during UN affairs.
Trump has grown publicly frustrated with Vladimir Putin over the war in Ukraine but has resisted pursuing broader sanctions beyond those already in place, arguing that European nations should first reduce their dependence on Russian oil. The president has described conversations with Putin in terms of personal diplomacy, recounting that he has told Melania about direct calls and meetings, including a notable exchange in which the White House said Putin hinted at potential actions, while Trump emphasized that the broader international response would be shaped by multiple partners and allies. The UN meeting place and schedule set the stage for what aides describe as a conversational moment for the first family amid an ongoing geopolitical dispute that remains deeply contested across Western capitals.
The encounter extends a thread of public involvement by U.S. first ladies in the Ukraine story. Zelensky thanked Melania publicly for drawing attention to the issue of Ukrainian children forcibly removed from their homes amid the conflict. Zelensky wrote on social media that at least 20,000 children had been taken and that Melania’s attention to the humanitarian tragedy carried moral weight for Ukraine. He noted that Zelenska had given Trump a letter written by Zelensky’s wife to share with Melania, underscoring the personal diplomacy some leaders have pursued even as governments pursue hard negotiations over aid, weapons, and sanctions.
The wider backdrop to the meeting is a U.S. policy landscape in which Trump has publicly critiqued some international institutions and norms while expressing skepticism about how to advance Western aims in Ukraine. He has framed his stance around a push for more aggressive moves against Russia paired with a broader argument about energy policy and alliances, a position that has included emphasizing domestic energy production and a cautious approach to sanctions that would be adopted in concert with European partners. The UN General Assembly, which brings together leaders from around the world, is a venue where such tensions are frequently aired and where personal diplomacy among first families can appear as a soft counterweight to more combative rhetoric on the world stage.
The six-year pattern of first ladies engaging with Ukraine-related issues includes a prior example from the United States. In 2022, First Lady Jill Biden made a secret trip to Ukraine on Mother’s Day and met Zelenska in Uzhhorod, a western Ukrainian town bordering Slovakia. The visit underscored that, even amid a crisis of war and mass displacement, first families have sometimes pursued symbolic diplomacy aimed at humanizing the costs of the conflict and highlighting humanitarian concerns. Zelenska’s public outreach and interactions with visiting dignitaries have continued to shape Ukraine’s narrative about the war and its humanitarian impact.
As the UN gathering unfolds, Trump and Zelensky are expected to address their bilateral ties in broader terms within the context of a crowded diplomatic agenda. While officials frame the Tuesday meeting as informal, it reinforces the U.S. administration’s ongoing effort to balance strategic messaging, domestic political considerations, and the urgency of supporting Ukraine at a moment when the war’s humanitarian toll remains severe and the international response remains a focal point for global diplomacy.